Girls: dresses, nail paints, and hair accessories. Since the day we were born, we have been told to dress according to our gender. If you think of it though, how do you decide which colour is masculine or feminine? Unfortunately though, isn't that what we are always told to do by our society? Women are told to wear 'feminine attires' and men are expected to wear 'masculine colours'. Dressing up is a choice and the last thing people, be it queer or straight or whomsoever, need to be told is how to dress,' Lavanya rightfully added. 'They don't attract the photographers but they're there. People have been coming to the pride parade in muted clothes too.'
Queer non-binary writer and theatre actor Lavanya said, 'Not everyone comes dressed up flamboyantly.
And she wondered, 'Where do the quiet ones go?'. She said that when she went for Mardi Gras she saw 'her people' (members of LGBTQ community) for the first time. Hannah Gadsby, too, pointed this out in her show, Nanette.